I don’t write essays often, but when I do it is because things are bothering me. Specifically, these memes are plenty and basically tell me someone like me doesn’t exist. When this collides with people who say things like “I honestly can’t imagine how you can use windows with all the crap” I get annoyed, and at this point I just wanted to make sure the people who write this know that there’s lots of people like me who have good reasons.
Turns out the world is multi-facetted.
Maybe give her a talk when you’re not discussing something important and tell her how hard it is to hear what she’s saying and that you’re not trying to be mean but you still can’t really.
If you do it outside of other discussions, maybe she’ll better remember.
That said I feel for you. That stuff can be annoying and I know that feeling of not wanting to be a dick but looking like an asshole.