A little before the me too movement, there was a yes all women, as a response to this sort of thing. No not all men act like this. But pretty much every woman has dealt with a few men acting like this. More if you move around in public a lot. Fewer if you drive everywhere and don’t go out much. Very very few once you’re visibly old.



If she were interested, and she could not make the time work, she would have given you a counter proposal.
Unless you either keep pushing for dates or radically change your behavior toward her, she’s unlikely to think you’re obsessed with her or a creep. Go back to how you were behaving before you asked her the first time.