• The Menemen!@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        I must be way too old. Being a nice guy is bad? Fuck, I’ve been living under a rock. Is this about “incels” or this sigma thing?

        Edit: Lol, why the downvotes? You guys aren’t nice!

        • DeLacue@lemmy.world
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          3 months ago

          Being a nice person isn’t bad but “nice guy” is a term for someone who presents themselves as nice and polite (but only to people they’re attracted to) and expects romantic attention in return for being nice. Basically, they think the fact that they put so much effort into being nice they deserve that romantic attention. They’ll often talk about how nice they are.

          Of course, anyone who needs to repeatedly tell you they are nice tend not be.

          • The Menemen!@lemmy.world
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            3 months ago

            Ok. Thx. I am not from the US and in my 40s. This whole thing of labeling people into categories is somewhat foreign to me. I mean my generation over here did this as well to a degree (and I admit I never got it), but it appears this has become much more dominant thin (at least at the other side of the pacific).

            I also tend to aggressively ignore things I deam stupid. But my children will be teenagers soo, guess I’ll have to put some time into researching these kind of things.

            • A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world
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              3 months ago

              Bro yall labeled people too quit acting like it’s so :pinches nose: unthinkable! I don’t even know where you’re from and I know that’s bullshit.

              Here we are. Adapt. Take responsibility.

        • buddascrayon@lemmy.world
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          3 months ago

          You apparently have been living under a rock because there is a world of difference between someone who is nice and also a guy and someone being a “nice guy”.

          Also the posters are red flags not because they reference nerdy things but because they show an unhealthy obsession with fictional characters who, though charismatic, are evil people who justify their violent actions with straw man arguments about power and corruption. The words on the Thanos poster put an especially fine point on that part.

  • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I used to worry about what women would think when they saw my home, but it turned out that none of them ever see it at all so I might as well be true to myself and collect all the My Little Ponies.

  • jsomae@lemmy.ml
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    3 months ago

    a bit strange but I don’t really see the problem tbh. Are these references I’m not getting? I recognize joker and thanos.

    • 474D@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      The Thanos poster has been “alpha-male”-ified and the joker is a cringe incel reference. The fact you don’t know is a good thing.

        • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          3 months ago

          Incels scorn society and the world for making them ugly, no powerful jawline, no American Pie sex adventures in high school, and no nice suits to wear to their minimum wage jobs. To incels, they are the forgotten scum of the earth.

          Well, The Joker is a film about an abused, poor, and lonely comedian getting his face kicked in by teenagers about a month before rising up, killing a late night tv host, and vengefully breaking Society down into chaos and misery.

          So, they just think The Joker makes them look cool. That’s really it. Every time they think about shooting up an elementary school, they also think about Arthur Fleck gunning down Murray Franklin.

  • SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz
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    3 months ago

    This display used to be the first thing you would see when you walked into my home.

    The only reason I moved them was because I replaced them to make room for my two massive bearded dragon tanks. 😎

    Any future partner better match my energy LOL